I have been lurking and observing this server community for about a week, and had been hopeful that this was a place that I could feel comfortable joining.
First, Nostalrius seems to have their stuff together with the scripting and all of that. To even contemplate being able to open a PVE server speaks to that. I've played around with ManGOS and stuff before so I know that it is all non-trivial, so congrats there. I also appreciate the zero-tolerance policy on gold buying, botting, and hacking.
However, I start to get a lot of cold and pricklies when I start to read posts about things like players losing max level toons, only to have the administration basically shrug it off. In some cases, these seem like players who know what they are doing and presumably would not delete a max level toon "for the lols."
Likewise there seems to be a lot of claims of accounts being lost, compromised, and stolen, with the same shrugtastic response. I also boggle over the 10-day inactivity cooldown on resetting an account password. I have never seen that anywhere else on the internet, and it seems less than optimal.
An often hidden, but core feature of the Blizzard experience is knowing that they have your back when the chips are down, for instance, having the security of knowing that an accidentally deleted toon can be recovered. Heck, Blizzard will recover a deleted toon even in the event that you delete it intentionally and just regret it later, assuming not too much time has passed. It should be pretty trivial to restore a toon from a backup database. Blizzard has also been known to go out of their way to restore rightful account ownership.
I realize that as a free service Nostalrius may not have the resources to doggedly pursue every case of someone crying over lost progress when they did not take proper precautions, and I realize that some of these claims made by players may be false, though there are some that chillingly give me pause, like the player who recently switched to an alt for a few seconds only to find their main gone when they tried to return.
Unless I start seeing some of these more concerning situations turned around, I won't be able to join all of you on Nostalrius, despite being very excited to see a PVE private server opening up.