AverageJoe wrote:Long story short, as long as you and your wife are both controlling your own characters independently and not /following for long, extended amounts of time, you'll be fine. I dare even say you could /follow for short amounts of time without drawing too much attention. There's a huge difference between /following for a five minute bathroom break and /following for three hours while you run the same dungeon multiple times in a row, the latter of which can land you in trouble. As stated in their terms of use, as long as it's more than one person playing within the house, it won't be a problem.
Can confirm, brief periods of /following are fine for bio breaks or grabbing food. Don't be afraid to use it if one of you needs to AFK a bit!