Nostalrius Begins - Quality wow vanilla realm (1.12)

So i have abandoned Healbot since I cant figure out how to add pets to my bars and the need to disable "Auto Selfcast" cause some pretty serious world pvp issues with my guild the other day (long story short...it was checked and it shouldnt have been).

ANYHOO

I decided to try Grid+clique. I like the layout, however the interface is so confusing....

1)HOW THE F*CK do i invite people to group??? I can no longer right click my *Blizz* character panel to drop down the default options to a) invite, b) leave party, c) whisper.... etc. PLEASE GOD TELL ME HOW TO FIX

2) please someone...ANYONE tell me a healing addon that doesnt f*ck with my blizz frames, and is similar to healbot but shows pets? I am so frustrated....

Thanks for your help!

Tried ClickHeal addon? for me it's working fine.