I've returned after *edited to more like* 3ish months of not playing and I keep receiving the "Unable to connect" msg. (Yes everything is correctly set up) Is something wrong with my account? name: Kelilia / pvp
Your account has never been banned, and your character was last logged in on January 20. If that wasn't you, then someone may have gained access to your account. Either that or you just have the wrong password.
Try resetting your password at https://en.nostalrius.org/password. You will need your account name and the E-mail address that you used to register the account for this to succeed.