Orthodoxy wrote:Actually doing whatever you want, regardless of its impact on others (in this case your raid group), is pretty much the textbook definition of selfishness - but you can keep on with the mental gymnastics if you want.
The second part of this post is where you continue with this false dichotomy of choosing between someone playing a shit spec ca someone who can't play their class. You don't have to choose, there are plenty of people that can both play their class and have the optimal spec. You have also failed to consider the possibility that the guy with the shit spec is also a shit player.
Finally, what does it matter if this is post-WOTLK or not? Does math not apply in vanilla WoW somehow?
If you understood the words I typed rather than just simply responding to them, you would find that I never said "every player is a good player regardless of spec". I said that a player not speced to your liking is not always a shit player. Raids my guild cleared in Vanilla (all except Naxx) had Arcane Mages, Balance Druids, Shadow Priests and Enhancement/Elemntal Shamans. And often times there were multiple.
Math applies quite a bit in all forms of WoW. Your point? Gear and stats and enchants and item level matter more than a players overall skill post WoTLK. Need proof? Spend 2 days hitting up the 'Raid Finder' tool in retail. Any group of players can clear any raid so long as their gear and stats are up to par. In Vanilla, yeah you needed gear but it wasn't make or break. Yeah, enchants were great, but weren't raid breaking. Other than resist gear, skill played a much bigger part than anything else.
You are correct that some players are just shit, or to correctly label them; casual. But any raid/guild leader worth his salt will run high level dungeons with their raiders (or potential raiders) to see how they run their spec before they go all holier-than-thou and force them to respec. And that last part is what creates the selfish nature of the game. Vet the potential raiders and help them or show them the door. Don't force them to respec and play the game the way YOU want them to in order to achieve a goal for YOUR guild and raiders. Yes, it is your time. Yes, it is valuable. But that fact doesn't give you the right to be a douche because someone doesn't play the game the way YOU want them to.