Clarification involving songflower.

Hi, after recent events, Felwood has been an absolute shit show, with numerous level 1s camping songflower with the intentions to report and ban people that receive the buff at the same time, and horde running around not knowing how to deal with this with situations such as this:
3 players were at one songflower location, all claiming the songflower was 'reserved' for themselves and if they also click it they will screenshot and report each other. I was afraid to try to contest this songflower for fear of a ban.
When this 'exploit' is still possible to do, even unintentionally, how are we supposed to deal with these types of situations?
What if you aren't paying full attention and a stealthed person clicks the songflower at the same time as you without your knowledge?
3 players were at one songflower location, all claiming the songflower was 'reserved' for themselves and if they also click it they will screenshot and report each other. I was afraid to try to contest this songflower for fear of a ban.
When this 'exploit' is still possible to do, even unintentionally, how are we supposed to deal with these types of situations?
What if you aren't paying full attention and a stealthed person clicks the songflower at the same time as you without your knowledge?